{"id":4810,"date":"2016-08-29T14:11:27","date_gmt":"2016-08-29T18:11:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mencare.org\/?p=4810"},"modified":"2016-08-29T14:11:27","modified_gmt":"2016-08-29T18:11:27","slug":"thangam-vijayasundarams-story-cup-tea-new-conversations-sri-lanka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mencare.org\/es\/thangam-vijayasundarams-story-cup-tea-new-conversations-sri-lanka\/","title":{"rendered":"La historia de Thangam y Vijayasundaram: una taza de t\u00e9 y nuevas conversaciones en Sri Lanka"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Thangam,
Thangam, Vijayasundaram y sus tres hijos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Vijayasundaram, de 42 a\u00f1os, como muchos de sus compa\u00f1eros, sol\u00eda beber durante y despu\u00e9s de su trabajo en una plantaci\u00f3n de t\u00e9 de Sri Lanka. Gastaba sus ganancias en alcohol, sin presupuestar para otras necesidades o pasar tiempo en casa con su familia. Sin embargo, todo eso cambi\u00f3 despu\u00e9s de que Vijayasundaram participara en los grupos de padres MenCare organizados por World Vision Lanka. Programa de desarrollo del \u00e1rea de Nuwara Eliya (ADP)<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Como recuerda la esposa de Vijayasundaram, Thangam, "\u00e9l sol\u00eda beber todos los d\u00edas y sol\u00edamos pelearnos entre nosotros. No le importaba la familia ni los ni\u00f1os". Thangam, que tambi\u00e9n trabaja en la plantaci\u00f3n de t\u00e9, se refiere a los tres hijos de la pareja: Thushanthan, de 13 a\u00f1os, Sathurthika, de 9 a\u00f1os, y Roshan, de 1 a\u00f1o. Contin\u00faa: "Despu\u00e9s de participar en el programa MenCare dirigido por World Vision, comenz\u00f3 a cambiar su actitud gradualmente. [Antes] ten\u00edamos problemas y discusiones, pero despu\u00e9s del programa MenCare, todo eso ha terminado.<\/p>\n

\u201cSol\u00eda salir despu\u00e9s del trabajo y volver tarde a casa, pero ahora se queda en casa despu\u00e9s del trabajo. Yo sol\u00eda hacer las tareas dom\u00e9sticas sola, pero ahora \u00e9l me ayuda a cocinar y a hacer otras tareas dom\u00e9sticas. Cuando llego tarde a casa despu\u00e9s de trabajar en el campo, \u00e9l prepara las comidas y lava los platos y la ropa. Se ocupa de los ni\u00f1os. Dej\u00f3 de beber alcohol y empez\u00f3 a ahorrar 300 rupias por ni\u00f1o al mes\u201d, contin\u00faa Thangam.<\/p>\n

\u201cCuando vuelvo a casa del campo, a veces me dice: 'Pareces cansada, d\u00e9jame prepararte una taza de t\u00e9'. Y me prepara una taza de t\u00e9. Antes molestaba a los ni\u00f1os cuando estudiaban, pero ahora me pide que los ayude con sus estudios mientras \u00e9l hace otras tareas dom\u00e9sticas\u201d, a\u00f1ade.<\/p>\n

\u201cAntes tambi\u00e9n pele\u00e1bamos por la noche, pero ahora ya no. Ahora nos sentamos todos juntos a cenar y a conversar. Antes se cre\u00eda que no deb\u00edamos hablar durante las comidas, pero en el programa MenCare aprendimos que debemos hablar y escuchar a nuestros hijos y sus ideas\u201d, concluye Thangam.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Vijayasundaram, de 42 a\u00f1os, como muchos de sus compa\u00f1eros, sol\u00eda beber durante y despu\u00e9s de su trabajo en una plantaci\u00f3n de t\u00e9 de Sri Lanka. Gastaba sus ganancias en alcohol, sin presupuestar para otras necesidades o pasar tiempo en casa con su familia. Sin embargo, todo eso cambi\u00f3 despu\u00e9s de que Vijayasundaram participara en el programa MenCare. \u2026<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":178,"featured_media":4812,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[437,244,465,545,544],"class_list":["post-4810","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-nuwara-eliya-adp","tag-sri-lanka","tag-story-of-change","tag-thangam","tag-vijayasundaram","countries-sri-lanka"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nA cup of tea and new conversations in Sri Lanka - MenCare<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Thangam and Vijayasundaram tell their story of change after participating in MenCare fathers\u2019 groups carried out by World Vision Lanka\u2019s Nuwara Eliya ADP.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mencare.org\/es\/thangam-vijayasundarams-story-cup-tea-new-conversations-sri-lanka\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_MX\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"A cup of tea and new conversations in Sri Lanka - 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